Six Months

After multiple Google searches I have discovered there is no symbol or gift that represents six months of a relationship. Which makes sense because, honestly, in the grand scheme of things, that isn't a very long time to be a part of someone's life.

Unless you have spent six months at North Fresno Church.

People who have worked in a setting that forces you to create a culture quickly--camp staff, fire crews, team teachers--understand there are some areas where you must discover your role and agenda almost immediately. You live in close quarters, do everything together on your work and social calendars, and maybe even split the cost of utilities/groceries/Redbox rentals. (I miss you, Wabern!)

This isn't quite like that.

This is more than setting routine with coworkers or accomplishing big tasks through team initiative.
This is more than creating goals, making lists, and following through with plans.
This is more than sitting on the couch every night and watching (or not) The Walking Dead together.

This is six months of making a community PART of your life. Not ALL of it.

And it is the best.

So in honor of this non-anniversary, I want to share six things I love about being a part of NFC:

1. The airport is a normal hangout spot. Whether a team is being sent on a trip, an out-of-town guest is arriving, or an individual is heading off into a new chapter of life you will find a large group standing in the terminal. Even before breakfast.

2. There is ALWAYS something going on. On any given day you will encounter someone in the office, a person fixing something outside, preschoolers and chalk drawings, a basketball game, arias from a practicing choir, and people having conversation in the parking lot.

3. Our kids understand who God is better than most professors of theology. From our preschoolers to our teenagers, it seems the best person to seek out with a Big Question around here is someone younger than you. These kids love being part of the Kingdom and will tell you about it. They will also tell you about the best dance moves and coolest superheroes.

4. People spend time together. Outside of church. On days other than Sunday. "Plancake" breakfasts, pool parties, and game nights are happening all over the place and it is the best way to turn your see-them-once-a-week friends into real family.

5a. Questions are encouraged. Everyone in this community is given the freedom to ask questions--without anyone rolling their eyes. There is no stigma to "question your faith" and individuals are able to think about the bigger facets of life with someone by their side. They are open to thinking through radical and sometimes contraversial thoughts...

5b. And no one pretends to have all the answers. But if you do want some clarity talk to a child. (See #3 above)

6. They love well. This is a community that is ushering in the Kingdom and strives to love God and each other in all they do. People don't see volunteering their time as an obligation, giving their resources as a charity, or serving others as work. Everything is done because of love. And I feel that love for me.

And I love them, too.

Happy Six Months, NFC Family!